the library
The books that cracked me open, helped me heal old wounds, and taught me how to stop abandoning myself to keep everyone else comfortable.
The ones I come back to.
These are the books that changed everything for me, the ones I return to when I need to remember who I am underneath all the conditioning.
Some helped me heal childhood wounds I didn’t know I had. Others taught me how to stay true to myself in relationships. A few cracked me wide open spiritually and showed me what’s possible when you stop running on autopilot.
I’m not prescribing how you use this list. Read what calls to you. Skip what doesn’t. Dog-ear the pages that hit. The goal isn’t to read them all. It’s to find the ones that help you stop settling and start living unapologetically.
Some of the links below are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you buy through them, at no extra cost to you.
Madly in Love with Me
Christine Arylostop outsourcing love and finally become your own best partner
View on Amazon →Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It
Kamal Ravikanta simple but radical practice to anchor self-love at your core
View on Amazon →Existential Kink
Carolyn Elliottembrace and integrate your shadows, even the dark stuff, to set yourself free
View on Amazon →The Body Keeps the Score
Bessel van der Kolkhow trauma lives in your body and how to finally release it
View on Amazon →How to Be the Love You Seek
Nicole LePerahealing your relational wounds so you stop chasing love and start embodying it
View on Amazon →How to Do the Work
Nicole LePerapractical guide to break cycles, calm your nervous system, and heal yourself
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Mating in Captivity
Esther Perelkeep passion alive without losing intimacy in long-term love
View on Amazon →The State of Affairs
Esther Perelreframe betrayal and see what infidelity can reveal instead of destroy
View on Amazon →Us
Terry Realditch the blame game and shift into collaboration and truth-telling
View on Amazon →Sovereign Love
Dené Loganlove rooted in sovereignty, not neediness or control
View on Amazon →Attached
Amir Levine & Rachel Hellerdecode your attachment style and stop running the wrong patterns in love
View on Amazon →The Heart of Love
John Demartinisee your partner clearly, strengths, flaws, and everything in between, and dissolve resentment through balance
View on Amazon →Getting the Love You Want
Harville Hendrixunderstand why you chose each other and how to heal old wounds through partnership
View on Amazon →The Dance of Anger
Harriet LernerA powerful guide to breaking patterns of reactivity and setting boundaries with clarity and grace
View on Amazon →Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge
Melody WildingLearn how to navigate difficult bosses, balance empathy with assertiveness, and lead confidently from any position
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The goal isn’t to read them all. It’s to find the ones that help you stop settling and start living unapologetically.
The Power of Now
Eckhart Tolleget out of your head, drop the past/future loops, and anchor into the present where life actually happens
View on Amazon →A New Earth
Eckhart Tollesee through the ego’s tricks and stop letting it run your life on autopilot
View on Amazon →Living Untethered
Michael A. Singerrelease the constant resistance and finally feel at peace inside your own skin
View on Amazon →The Sedona Method
Hale Dwoskina practical tool to let go of the emotions and attachments weighing you down
View on Amazon →Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself
Joe Dispenzarewire your mind and body, break old patterns, and stop running on autopilot
View on Amazon →The Power of Awareness
Neville Goddardtrain your awareness to shape reality instead of sleepwalking through it
View on Amazon →The Law of Forgiveness
Connie Dominoforgiveness as your fastest path to emotional freedom and self-liberation
View on Amazon →Now or Never
Alexi Panos & Preston Smilesdrop the excuses, reclaim your power, and finally do the thing you’ve been putting off
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You Are a Badass at Making Money
Jen Sinceroshift from scarcity to possibility without boring finance talk
View on Amazon →Worthy
Nancy Levinupgrade your self-worth so it matches your net worth
View on Amazon →You Too Can Be Prosperous
Robert Russellprosperity as a mindset, not a grind
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Brad Yates’ YouTube Channel
quick, powerful EFT/tapping practices for real-time emotional reset, releasing limiting beliefs, managing anxiety, immediately boosting energy and lots more quick shifts!
Watch on YouTube