Coaching by Dasha
I’m Dasha, and I Help Exhausted Overachievers Gain Peace of Mind
Do you pride yourself on being productive and responsible, but feel burned out inside? Do you feel guilty saying no or prioritizing yourself? Are you so used to struggling that you forgot what happiness feels like?I help driven women like you drop overfunctioning and guilt and gain their energy back.
See How I WorkIt’s Not Just You.
- You say yes when every part of you wants to say no.
- You sit down to relax and reach for your phone before you’ve taken a breath.
- You replay the day in bed, ruminating over where you fell short.
- You do it yourself because it’s faster than explaining, then resent that no one offered.
- You feel responsible for everyone’s mood but your own.
None of this is a character flaw. It’s a pattern, and once you can see the whole thing, it stops running your life.
- You make decisions from your own values, not from how someone might react.
- You rest without trying to earn it first.
- You stop picking yourself apart at the end of the day.
- You let someone be disappointed without rushing in to fix it.
Ready to Stop Feeling Exhausted and Afraid That If You Stopped, Everything Would Fall Apart?
You’ve spent years taking responsibility for everyone and everything around you. The guilt, the resentment, the constant running on empty? They are now a part of your day.
You don’t know how to live differently without upending your life, but you can’t continue this way any longer. The truth is change is possible, but it starts with you, leaving everything else that you value intact.
Here’s How We Work Together:
Move Fast, Go Deep
The Cut to the Chase Intensive
You don’t need twelve weeks to name the pattern that’s keeping you stuck. You need a day where nothing else is competing for your attention.We get straight to what’s underneath it, and you leave with a plan you can start on immediately, not more insight to sit with.This is for the woman who is done waiting for the right time to deal with this.
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Highest Support
Private Coaching
Do you keep struggling with similar situations? You don’t need a therapist validating your feelings.Here, you stop waiting for others to change so that you can feel better, and take immediate responsibility for your own well-being.With my no-fluff approach enveloped in kindness, you enable yourself to feel better quickly.
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Start on Your Own
Self-Paced Work
Not ready for live coaching yet? The self-paced offers give you a real place to start.Each one is built around a specific problem and a specific skill. No fluff. These work if you do the work.
See What Applies to YouI was afraid I’d be told to make drastic changes, like quitting my job or leaving my marriage. Instead, Dasha helped me see the patterns I was stuck in and how I was contributing to them. When I changed that, everything got better. I didn’t actually need to blow up my life. I am so grateful for this work.Attorney · Metro Boston, MA
Former corporate lawyer. I upended my life to end the burnout. You don’t have to.
I help overachieving women like you stop running on empty and live a life that you can enjoy.
I spent years in corporate law doing exactly what you’re doing: managing everything, saying yes to everyone, and wondering why I felt flat despite achieving it all. I chose to leave the field, not just the firm.
Now I coach successful women whose old definition of success isn’t working any longer. I help you change at your core, not just the surface-level behaviors, so results will last. You do not need to talk in therapy for years.
My StoryFree Download
Stop Feeling Guilty for Saying No
You know the answer is no. You’ve rehearsed what to say. But the second you see that person’s face, the guilt hits and you cave. This free toolkit shows you where that guilt is really coming from, and what to do the moment it hits.
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Signature Program
Freedom from Guilt & Obligation Bootcamp
14 days. Self-paced. Built for the woman who’s tired of saying yes when she wishes she could say no.
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The Truth About
Guilt
You said no. And then the guilt hit.This teaches you what guilt really means (Hint: it is not what you think).
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Stop Running on Empty
You’re not exhausted because you have too much on your plate.You’re exhausted because you don’t know where your plate ends and someone else’s begins.
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Stop Feeling Stuck
You keep waiting for the other person to act differently so you can feel better.You can wait forever, or you can make yourself feel better quickly.
Get It for $27My Mission
I Help Highly Responsible, Exhausted Women
Recover from Overachieving
and Get Their Energy Back
Without Guilt or Resentment
You’ve gone as far as you can with therapy, podcasts, and the “Let Me” approach, but you still feel overwhelmed and stuck. You don’t need more information. You need someone who can quickly get to the root and help you feel better in your actual life, without upending everything.
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(Tough) Love Notes
One short honest email a week, for overachievers who are tired of dealing with the same patterns on repeat.
- No-fluff nuggets you can apply right away
- No toxic positivity or surface-level advice
- Real talk on overachiever recovery: over-giving, over-functioning, guilt, burnout and people-pleasing
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Overachiever Recovery
Honest conversations about burnout, guilt, resentment, people-pleasing, and everything that comes with being the woman who looks like she has it together.
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From the Blog
Real Talk on Burnout, Guilt, and What Truly Works
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Let’s Figure Out What’s Keeping You Stuck
In one conversation I can usually see a person’s blind spots (we all have them!). Book a free discovery call and we’ll talk about where you are, what’s underneath it, and whether working together makes sense.
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